Social IQ

You need to be clever here. Learn a language in line with your personality. That is, if you are shy then don't ignore that. Don't go against the grain and force yourself to speak out aloud and in front of others.

If you're a loner then work on your own.

If you hate to speak on the phone in English, then don't practice telephone conversations or visit Skype.

You don't need to. There are dozens of ways to learn apart from such methods.